My mum has a colleague called Andy. My mum hates him, but now, he's lying in TTSH's CCU. And all the hate just dissolved, I can see the sadness in her eyes. He's down with a viral infection that has gotten too serious. Now, his blood pressure is a whooping 170, and his kidneys have shut down. His only 50, he only got married a few years ago and his daughter is only 3-4 years old. Please, give him more time. Do keep him in your prayers will you? Do we really need death or near death to dissolve all hatred?