Saturday, December 11, 2004
I was doing my daily pondering about things that have happened to me in the past few days and maybe weeks. Not talking about anything in particular, I don't want a flooded board. Some people just can't let go of certain stuff. Things that come round will come round again, there's not reason to be so inflexible about the situation. After all the anger and frustration, you'll still not have accomplished what you've hoped to achieve. And when the oppotunity comes to you again, you grab it, and all the anger and frustration you've been in will be down the drain. It'll just be something a by-stander jokes about over tea.
Some people are just too damn sensitive. They orientate themselves to think that some things people say are always offensive. Just because there was a past experience of sarcasm, it doesn't mean the next time round, things are still the same. Some people just keep thinking that they are always right. I admit that I am like that at times, but there is one ultimate case out there. I'm learning lessons from him, and I'm trying to steer myself away from this really bad trait. Some people simply do not listen to what others are trying to tell them, leading to there downfall. Now that a whole lot of people want him down, I really can't think of how he can continue sitting up there in his self proclaimed throne of supremacy.
Think being forgiving and being able to let go is something I've learnt from all the shit I've been through over the years. If i kept brooding about 14 extras and my bad A levels, my life would have been so miserable.
Also figured that sometimes, putting my face and pride down can get me places. Clearing misunderstandings may not be the easiest thing to do for a guy, but once I do it, things get better, makes my life that much easier. Being humble also helps me learn alot. Especially if you're humble and not act good in front of people of great knowledge and wisdom. This name I will mention. Mr Ng is this person with great knowledge and wisdom. He's unselfishness to depart his knowledge is something I really look up to. My partner Claire and I have been very humbly learning everything we could from him. And yeah! seen alot that we would never have learnt from our books, lecture notes even the lecturers...
Posted by NuhC at 1:32 AM
